I am now on my 5th watching of Schitts Creek, I’m an unashamed fan, and don’t think it’s hyperbolic to say it is one of the greatest sit-coms of modern television. There are LOADS of great things about it, but one thing that often goes unsaid: the show consistently depicts men as recipients of deep affection, unwavering support, and emotional validation—without ever compromising their masculinity.
Take David and Patrick, their bond is built on mutual respect, open communication, and emotional vulnerability. Patrick’s serenade of David with “Simply the Best” is heartfelt and tender, free from irony or mockery. Their journey is filled with personal growth and consistent “green flags,” illustrating a healthy, supportive partnership.
Similarly, Johnny is portrayed as a man who receives steadfast support from his wife. She never belittles him to others and always listens when he’s stressed—sometimes in her unique way, but always within the framework of their mutual understanding. Their relationship exemplifies a mature, respectful partnership where the man is valued and uplifted, without Moira being seen any less than equal.
Alexis’s arc is the same. Her decision to approach Ted and confess her love, without any assurance of his response, subverts traditional gender roles. This moment, typically reserved for male characters, underscores her growth and challenges conventional romantic tropes.
As a man watching Schitt’s Creek, its portrayal of affection and support shown to men should be what the world aspires to. The series presents numerous examples of men receiving the love they need without suggesting that they are weak. It’s rare to see both in television, and in reality, and I love that journey for us.